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<p>I&#8217;m still feeling tentative about this process. It&#8217;s a new habit and it feels fragile. Like my new won sense of peace and equilibrium could easily be upset. It feels like the crystals are just beginning to form and it wouldn&#8217;t take much to dissolve those little buds.</p>
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